I find myself telling others when they ask what I do during the day, “I’m just a mom.” Often times, I feel embarrassed to even just admit that. That I’m not as “successful” as you are, because I’m not working right now. I often feel less of a person.
I told my husband a while ago, maybe I should go back to work. “Maybe I should actually contribute to our family.”
My husband had to engrave in my mind a couple things.
I’m not “just” a mom.
I’m a doctor, constantly giving my children medicine when needed. Checking temperatures, examining bowel movements, making sure they are hydrated.
I’m a professional cook. Maybe not the best one, but a cook to three people none the less. I make sure they eat fruits and vegetables. I make sure they are fed, and that they have snacks. I have them try new foods.
I’m a professional laundromat. I make sure they each have their clothes washed in detergent that won’t harm their delicate skin. And that my husband has all his clothes for his workweek, and that everything is folded neatly and put where it belongs.
I’m a nurse. Constantly sterilizing, cleaning, and bandaging every bruise that needs to be kissed, along with wiping the tears away.
I’m a fashion designer. Buying clothes that match their little personalities. Making sure I patch the holes that might occur, and always trying to find the best deals.
But best of all, I’m a professional therapist and friend. Listening to the “drama” a three year old can have at preschool. Wiping the tears, and telling her when it’s time to apologize. And letting my children know that I love them no matter what.
So to all you moms out there, you’re not “just” a mom. You have the most important role there will ever be. You’re their best friend, their first love, and greatest confidant.
You are Wonder Woman.
