I think the best advice is to avoid those situations where children are too exposed, too easy of a target. As our local PAR officer loves pointing out: The majority of larceny from vehicles does not involve breaking in: Thieves steal mostly from unlocked vehicles.

So it is with people and children: It is the alone individual, the alone child that becomes an easier target for someone – and too often someone with whom the child is acquainted. I think the best lesson you can teach a child is that they should never be alone with another adult (outside of immediate family).

I concur with Warren: As parents, we cannot instill our fears in our children. Teach them watchfulness, teach them how to recognize potentially dangerous situations, yes. And quietly, behind the scenes, do what we can to ensure that they are not in those dangerous situations.

Do not let this event become more than what it is. My heart and prayers go out to the family and friends, but do not let this become the boogeyman that steals other children’s childhoods.

Sorry Vicki, but you have major issues, other than this story. You are terrified to let him go with his dad? That is ridiculous. This is a control issue you need to deal with not your son.
This is not a hard time for everyone. It is a hard time for the family and friends of Jessica. Sorry, but when you say things like that about your son’s dad, you lose all sympathy.

Cara, if your three boys are not scared, than just let them continue on. For one, if this is a stranger abduction, you have little to fear. These type of offenders are preferential. Three boys do not meet this perps needs. Three boys together will be just fine. I know it will be difficult, but as parents we cannot instill our fears in our children. Good Luck.

Such a hard time for everyone.